"The reason man leaves is not because of how the other woman looks

but rather how the other woman makes him feel"

Sad isn't it...its like come on lah..so many man cheat on their wife and just because they want to be treated differently. Why don't these men just admit that they are sick and tired of seeing the same woman day in day out. And then comes along another woman....blood start rushing through the man's body especially to 'that' place! Of coz this other woman will make u feel different...will make u feel like u are on top of the world...becoz she's not married to u for goodness sake...becoz she doesn't know your bad habits...! If man cannot stay faithful to one woman, why in the first place get married?! How can you ever compare the affair with your marriage?

Let's see:

In an affair,

- u have the thrill of doing something secret.

- U have the adrenalin rush every single day.

- U are dying to meet this other woman and you find ways to go and meet her. And u'll start lying to your wife..much like how a teenager behaves.

- U get to see only the best side of the other woman. (U don't live with her, duh!)

- U get the thrill of not knowing what'll happen in the future.

- U dun have to worry bout working hard because u live in the moment.

In a marriage,

- U know everything about your wife.

- U work hard to achieve a better life for the family (so much that u don't have time for each other and start complaining that u are not getting attention from ur wife!).

- U wake up to her every day (which eventually will bore u!).

- She knows your routine and your likes and dislikes. U know she'll be by u rain or shine (so u take her for granted!).

- U have added responsiblity when children comes...(and u claimed that u wanted spontaneity and had enuff of the routines)

Hello....wake up won't u! The wife too wants everything the hubby wants...sometimes I think its only fair if the wife has an affair too...let the hubby feels the pain now! Life is not that easy. Of coz when you are in an affair, u claim u r in love with the other person and you start talking bad things about your spouse to this other person. At that point, please take a step back and reflect how it felt when u and your spouse were dating. Didn't it feel the same....life has taken its toil on your relationship with your spouse but that doesn't mean u should be looking for other outlets! If u happen to marry the person u are having an affair with...it'll just come back to square 1...and when that happens its too late to come crawling back to your spouse...

To all men and women who's currently cheating on your spouse, please take this seriuosly.

What your spouse do not know does not mean that it'll not hurt her/him.....!

It hurts me to see so many marriages have ended because of a third party!